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Fulvia, Lioness among Romans
"At any rate, [Antony] now reformed his whole manner of living, turned his thoughts towards marriage, and chose Fulvia, the widow of Clodius the demagogue. She was a woman who took no interest in spinning or managing a household, nor could she be content to rule a husband who had no ambition for public life: her desire was to govern those who governed or to command a commander-in-chief. And in fact Cleopatra was indebted to Fulvia for teaching Antony to obey a wife's authority for by the time he met her, he had already been quite broken in and schooled to accept the sway of women." During the proscriptions that accompanied the creation of the "Second Triumvirate", Fulvia was depicted by her detractors as particularly bloodthirsty even going so far as having a man proscribed because he would not sell his house to her. This tradition was elaborated, perhaps by apologists who wished to excuse Antony from some of the blame by placing the blame on Fulvia. Even in death, Fulvia got little respect although Antony is depicted as having some remorse for his contribution to her demise:
"While these events were in progress the news came that Fulvia was dead.
It was said that she was dispirited by Antony's reproaches and fell sick, and it
was thought that she had become a willing victim of disease on account of the
anger of Antony, who had left her while she was sick and had not visited her
even when he was going away. The death of this turbulent woman, who had stirred
up so disastrous a war on account of her jealousy of Cleopatra seemed extremely
fortunate to both of the parties who were rid of her. Nevertheless, Antony was
much saddened by this event because he considered himself in some sense the
cause of it." |